I met this chick at work and I’m kind of into her. She’s kind of young, but that’s ok (it may even be awesome). But I decided not to pursue her anymore. Why? Cause I know it only causes problems down the line.
Rewind to last year, there was this girl at work that I was seeing. She was really into me, and I was like “ehh… you’re cute and kind of fun, but a little crazy” (the girly kind of crazy if you know what I mean). But we ended up hanging out a lot, and we had a lot of fun with the office romance thing. You know… hiding from people, making out in the stairwells, and all other kinds of fun stuff.
But at some point I couldn’t handle the craziness anymore, and I tried to break it off. And the thing is, I’m usually really bad with break ups. I don’t know how to do it. I end up kind of being nice to them, but silent, and hope they break up with me. She got the picture though, and we kind of stopped meeting up.
Although we weren’t seeing each other anymore, we still worked at the same place and saw each other all the time. Eventually, we started to meet again to do simple stuff. Grab some food every now and then, dropping by each other’s desks to say hi. And before I knew it, it kind of got started again. Meeting up after work, a few drinks every now and then, a movie or something. And the whole time I knew she was still a little crazy. But give me a break… I was lonely!
So this new chick at work, she’s a cool cat. And I kind of started something, but I’m just going to straight up stop. I don’t think I can date girls from work again, especially if I’m going to see them all the time. I think it ends up being bad news for all parties involved.